Aufruf

A pre-wedding tradition in which the groom is called up to the Torah for a blessing, often held on the Shabbat before the wedding. It’s a spiritual preparation and a way for the community to offer well-wishes to the couple. In some traditions, congregants throw candy at the groom to symbolize a sweet marriage.

Kallah (Bride)

The Hebrew word for bride. The kallah traditionally prepares spiritually for the wedding day, often including prayers, immersing in the mikvah (ritual bath), and receiving blessings from loved ones.

Kabbalat Panim (Reception for the Bride and Groom)

Before the ceremony, the bride and groom are greeted separately by their guests. The kallah often sits in a chair while family and friends offer blessings, and the groom celebrates at the chosson’s tish.

Chosson’s Tish (Groom’s Table)

A gathering before the ceremony where the groom (chosson) and his relatives and friends share words of Torah, sing, and sometimes engage in lighthearted interruptions when the groom attempts to deliver a speech.

Ketubah (Jewish Marriage Contract)

A written document outlining the couple’s commitments to each other, traditionally focusing on the groom’s obligations to the bride. It is signed before the ceremony by two witnesses and is often displayed in the couple’s home.

Bedeken (Veiling of the Bride)

A symbolic moment before the ceremony where the groom places the veil over the bride’s face, signifying modesty and emphasizing the inner beauty of their union. It is inspired by the biblical story of Jacob and Rachel, ensuring that the groom is marrying the right person!

Chuppah

The wedding canopy under which the ceremony takes place. It represents the couple’s new home and is open on all sides, symbolizing hospitality. It is usually supported by four poles and adorned with fabric or flowers.

Sheva Brachot (Seven Blessings)

A central part of the wedding ceremony, these seven blessings are recited over a cup of wine, blessing the couple with joy, love, and a fruitful life together.

Breaking of the Glass

At the end of the ceremony, the groom (or sometimes both partners) breaks a glass underfoot, symbolizing the fragility of life, the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem, and the couple’s commitment to standing together through all of life’s ups and downs. Guests traditionally shout “Mazel Tov!” (Good luck/Congratulations!) afterward.

Yichud (Seclusion)

Immediately after the ceremony, the couple spends a few private moments together in a designated room, symbolizing their new union. It’s their first moments alone as a married couple.

Sheva Brachot Celebrations

In the week following the wedding, special meals are hosted for the newlyweds, where the Sheva Brachot (seven blessings) are recited again, extending the joy of the wedding into their first days of marriage.